I’ve still got so much to learn about blogging. There are rules and stuff for crying out loud!
I didn’t know that!
I thought it was just a personal website kind of thing that no one but close friends and family would read. And I figured they would only read it because they felt some kind of obligation.
So off I go with wonderful ignorance just blogging away. Then, as I’m reading other blogs, I start realizing that there are things that are considered eitquette in the blogging world.
Link swapping for instance. I didn’t know that! I kind of thought it was presumptuous for me to think someone would want a link from my little blog. Like you had to reach a certain level of respect before you are worthy to link to someone’s blog. I don’t know, I think like that.
The other thing is leaving comments - or at least remembering where you’ve been.
I was reading blogs last night and saw some things that were really interesting. I thought, ‘I’m going to write something about that and link back to this.’ But then I followed a link, intending to come back to the original post so I could follow up on it, but then followed another link. I can always hit the back button to get back to the first one.
Before I knew it, I was hopelessly lost in the blog cyber world and had read at least 10 posts out of Lord only knows how many that I was going to go back to cause they were so good I wanted to comment on them and link back to them.
By the time I realized I couldn’t find my way back to the last interesting post I’d read, I knew it was hopeless to even think of trying to find the first 9 I wanted to revisit.
I thought of starting from scratch, but couldn’t remember where I had started???
So, from now on, I’m going to leave comments in the interesting blogs even if I intend to go back and link to them. Cause I probably won’t ever get back there again.
I really hate I can’t find some of those posts I read last night!
This is making my head hurt!

January 24th, 2006 at 9:02 pm
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January 24th, 2006 at 9:03 pm
People get offended when I tell them I only link to people who link to me. Tough shit, says I. It’s my blog. I don’t see why I should link someone if they aren’t going to reciprocate.
No one seems to give a damn if I feel slighted when they DON’T link me, but they come all unglued and call me a linkwhore if I dump someone for lack of reciprocity.
So I’m a linkwhore. I embrace it. I am a PROUD linkwhore!
Thanks for linking me. I like your opinions and think they are most worthy of linkage!
January 24th, 2006 at 10:35 pm
LOL Mark.
I like links too. I was really glad when I quit being a rodent!
These things are important after all!
January 25th, 2006 at 12:29 am
Beth,
Thanks for the link.
January 25th, 2006 at 12:36 am
Speaking of Blogging Etiquette, I was looking for your e-mail address.
You sent several trackbacks to Linkfest Haven, but Linkfest Haven is actually a list of blogs holding a linkfest, so we don’t take trackbacks. You can however send trackbacks to any of the parties listed on Linkfest Haven.
January 25th, 2006 at 1:33 am
Thanks Adam - I sent you an email
January 25th, 2006 at 8:37 am
I feel your pain, having only recently started figuring some of this stuff out myself. I figure, I link to someone because I like what’s on their post/blog, not because I expect anything in return. If they link back, however, that sure is nice!
January 25th, 2006 at 8:55 am
Me too Thinking Southerner! I really didn’t realize it was used to rate blogs for the longest time. And I didn’t know - well - I just didn’t know much of anything aobut it! lol
I’m learning.
January 25th, 2006 at 10:34 am
I was really glad when I quit being a rodent!
I did the TTLB thing for a while until I realized I really didn’t care what NZ Bear thought of my blog. Or anyone else for that matter!
Like life, it’s all about personal choice.
January 25th, 2006 at 1:06 pm
Beth, I only put the links to blogs that I actually read on my blog. I don’t care who links me or doesn’t. My blogroll is my own personal “bookmarker”. I blog for fun and for a kind of personal “therapy”. To get things off my chest, to voice my opinions and thoughts. I just don’t care if I’m doing it right or wrong LOL. I don’t have enough hours in the day to care about it. I enjoy reading your blog, thats why your linked : )