Yesterday an American Soldier told me that nobody cares about Soldiers. There wasn’t the tiniest hint of self-pity in his words. It was stated as fact, just simple cynical fact.
Me, being me, declared ‘YES they do. Many people do. The AMERICAN PEOPLE CARE!‘ I said it with passion and conviction.
‘Why do you think that?’, I asked.
‘We are pawns in a political game.’ he replied. He told me about how the guys over there all talk about it - privately. They see the news, they hear what people say. They know they are expendable.
‘It’s disheartening’, he said. Again said not with self-pity - just as fact.
I went into a tirade about how the loudest people are getting all the press and that he shouldn’t let that influence his attitude. I told him that most people, MOST people understand and know what they are doing there. Most people love and appreciate them and what they are doing. I told him that the average person isn’t like John Murtha, or John Kerry, or Air America, or any of the other narcissists that are willing to use the Soldiers’ lives for their own political gain.
In fact, I told him, most people despise those people for their carelessness with the lives of our Soldiers.
He listened, or didn’t listen, but he waited till I finished my onslaught in defense of the American people. Then he replied. ‘We know.’ That’s all. Just ‘we know’.
I felt like crying. I still feel like crying over it. I wanted to jump through the phone and make him understand that people do care. What he is doing is honorable and the people are behind them 100%.
But I’m powerless to make him understand. I’m powerless to make people understand how harmful words can be. I’m powerless to change anything.
All of this was in response to me asking him some questions about what they are doing. He skirted around my questions, but he finally started telling me what he could about his work.
‘We are having to train our troops to not shoot until we are certain that we are being shot at.’ He said they were training the troops to not shoot just because someone is shooting, they have to make sure they are shooting at them.
I asked, ‘What - you have to wait till you’re shot before you shoot?’. ‘Pretty much,’ he replied.
He told me that after the incident in which two Soldiers had been mutilated he had to have a long talk with his men about saving the last bullet for themselves should they find themselves over run.
‘You have to ask yourself, would you rather your mother get a letter that you died in battle or that you died mutilated with your penis cut off and crammed down your throat.’ he told his men.
He told me about ‘cultural sensitivity’ courses they are being required to take. He said the word around is that everybody is skittish about the ever present cameras and newsmen. They have to make sure nothing can be interpreted in the press to make the Americans out to be the bad guys.
‘Everybody’s afraid to pull the trigger. If you don’t pull the trigger, you might be killed, if you pull the trigger you could be ending your career.’ He added, ‘They’d really rather us be killed than get any bad press. So we aren’t supposed to pull the trigger.’
I’m watching Israel go after one Soldier. They refuse to leave this one Soldier to the horrible fate that the Palestinians undoubtedly would have in store for him. The news is calling it a ’stand-off’. It’s not a stand-off. Israel is beating the daylights out of them. But the press is doing all it can to give the Palestinians hope that they might be able to live through a real all out assault by Israel.
Why won’t America do that? Why does America tie the hands of our troops? Why don’t we kick the press out of the platoons and let them do what they need to do? Why would we RATHER OUR SOLDIER’s be killed than get bad press?
We are getting bad press ANYWAY. I’d rather the world RESPECT us than like us. No one can respect THIS kind of weak, lily-livered fighting.
It’s all so silly and at the same time so sad.
How does a mother stand having her child in this battle with the worst of the enemies being the American media and progressives who would see our Soldiers dead than admit there is a real threat from the islamic world.
I thought we learned that lesson in Vietnam.
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July 1st, 2006 at 10:48 pm
Why does America tie the hands of our troops?…Excellent post Beth!:)
July 1st, 2006 at 10:56 pm
“You may not like me, but you will respect me!”
It’s a shame that there are troops over there that feel that way. It’s a shame that they have to put up with the bullcrap that is cultural sensitivity. It’s a shame that they can’t kill the reporters right along with the “insurgents” because after all, they are on the same side. It’s a shame he can’t surf the 101st blogroll, and the Victory bogroll, and all the other blogrolls so he can see that the majority of the people are behind him, his comrades, and his mission. Unfortunately, what we think doesn’t matter. If they even look like making a mistake, they are guilty until proven innocent. Because of that, no matter what we do, they will always feel slighted.
That’s the fault of the libtards. Because of that, I hate them with all of being, all of my existence, and all of my soul.
July 2nd, 2006 at 3:06 am
This is the most upsetting thing I have read this weekend, and I’ve had plenty to be upset about
Soldiers are heroes! The media should be taken out back and beat up in the alley if this is the result of their gross irresponsibility. These fine Men & Women need to understand that much of the World is at War with America today, including a 20% chunk of lefty haters within the US. It is so vicious precisely because of what the troops are defending and a deep jealousy / envy! It has NO bearing on their conduct. I’m not American but the US mission in Iraq is a noble one, no media hack or self serving politician could ever change my mind of that.
July 2nd, 2006 at 8:00 am
About 2/3 of the DoD needs to be taken out and shot! They were hired when PC was running amok during the Clinton years, and they are firmly entrenched in continuing the ruination Clinton started in our military. I had a retired major remind me why it was important to have a civilian entity in charge of the military, and while I agree, I disagree that we should continue to allow DoD’s bleeding heart liberals to run our military decisions and affairs!
July 2nd, 2006 at 8:52 am
Darn - my trackback didn’t work. Thanks for the posting Beth, this is just sad. Wish this Soldier knew about all of us out here who support and honor what he’s doing. He should sign up with AnySoldier or Soldier’s Angels. Then he’d find out there is huge support for our Troops.
July 2nd, 2006 at 9:40 am
I have had my tirades about this same thing when I go and visit the recruiters here. They’re absolutely wonderful - they can’t really get in the politics and such with me but they let me go on about the BS that I see our troops being put through and having to put up with and how I feel that certain, (well hell, most)of the politicians should be booted out Now - or hanged in the town square. There’s usually a twitch at the corner of their mouths after I’m all done. Yep, muffins and ranting at the local recruiting station…
Well done, Beth! Keep up the tirade - maybe one day we who respect and really support our troops will be louder than the BS and our troops will hear us over the cacaphony.
July 2nd, 2006 at 10:19 am
“How does a mother stand having her child in this battle with the worst of the enemies being the American media and progressives who would see our Soldiers dead than admit there is a real threat from the islamic world.”
It’s like watching from afar as an ambuse by our own is about to take out my only child and NOT being able to do ANYTHING to save him. My cries, shouts, screams are silent, heard only by myself. It slowly drives me insane to realize there is no one…..NO ONE….that can/will help me/him/them and that the only protection my/yours/ours young warrior has is the other warrior standing next to him. God.. what can I tell you of the horror and shame as I watched my son’s faith in US, We The People, slowly erode. Yes, I encouraged him to explore the bloggsphere to read what we really thought, but as he quietly pointed out to me, the internet is only avaliable to some.
My absolute rage at the media and wannabe rockstar pottyticians is only challenged by my rage at our military leaders bending over for them.
I’m proud of my son, of our troops and I’ll always support them and I do know that I’m just one of millions…but do they know this? If anyone has a solution I’ll jump on board!
July 2nd, 2006 at 10:28 am
Flip side to this… it’s a datapoint of one.
There is much to chew over in there - but at the same time, my sensors in the force don’t pick up a vibe as bad as this young soldier’s.
Just sayin’.
July 2nd, 2006 at 10:42 am
Nobody cares about soldiers?…
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July 2nd, 2006 at 11:20 am
Independence Day…
"Freedom. No word has held out greater sacrifice, needed more to be nurtured, blessed more the giver, damned more its destroyer, or come closer to being God’s will on earth. May America ever be its protector." –Omar Bradl…