
So far, this has really not been a good week. Lots of things have piled on that no one really wants to hear about and I don’t really want to write about - it’s just been stressful and not good. Today was particularly bad and my mood darkened as the day went by. I managed to get myself into a real snit.
I had to do some running around and it seemed every where I went someone, somewhere, somehow was spoiling my foul mood. So here are some of the things that happened today that intruded on my self-pity and seemed to be forcing the Christmas Spirit on me! They felt like little everyday miracles.
1. Standing in what seemed like an endless line at the post office I was surprised to hear cheerful talk and laugher among the other people in the line. Someone up ahead of me had on a ridiculous ornate Santa Claus hat that jingled whenever she moved her head. Just that one action created laugher, chatter and friendly smiles in spite of the long line. Even the postal workers were smiling and talking to the customers.
2. I went in to Subway to grab a sandwich for lunch and AGAIN everyone seemed in a good mood in the line (this good mood thing seemed to be spreading!). When I finally got to the cash register to pay for my sandwich, the cashier was unselfconsciously singing ‘The weather outside is frieghtful ….’ to herself. She didn’t even seem aware that she was singing the song.
3. I drove the back roads home because of the heavy traffic, only to get stopped on a 2-lane hardly ever used back road by road construction of all things. The workers were digging up part of the road - apparently laying pipe. I should say about 10 workers were lounging on the side of the road while one guy worked a backhoe kinda thing. I was the only car stopped and was irritated they wouldn’t let me pass when there was room. As I sat there and steamed to myself, I looked to my left and there was a small house with a fenced in yard FULL of the tackiest Christmas decorations I have ever seen (and that is saying something). There wasn’t an inch of yard without a plastic santa or reindeer. I laughed in spite of myself.

4. My precious daughter, who moved to California last month with nothing but a wing and a prayer, called me no less than a dozen times today to tell me funny things that were going on with her in job interviews.
‘I don’t think I did well in that job interview today’, she said. When I asked her why not she proceeded to explain to me that when she sat down her blouse opened a bit between buttons across her bust and no matter how she situated herself she couldn’t adjust it so it closed properly. I told her that might have helped her actually (just kidding - sorta). She was applying for a job in business, the interviewers asked her what organizational method she uses. ‘Post-It notes’, she answered. She said the female interviewer’s eyes went wide and the male interviewer chuckled. ‘I’m thinking that might not have been the answer they were looking for.’ she said. She had me laughing in spite of myself.
She said when she left the building one of the male interviewers was out there. He said hello and told her he hopes she gets the job. She replied that she didn’t think she did very well at all. He told her that she was ‘a breath of fresh air’. He said they talked about her a long time after she left and liked her honest, genuine answers. I told her I imagine they are STILL talking and laughing at her answers - the post-it notes wasn’t the only ‘honest’ answer she gave.
5. My precious daugher (see #4) has made some new friends and has been excitedly telling me about her plans to spend Christmas with some friends out in California who also don’t have family there. It makes me happy when my children are happy. She was making me read her recipes over the phone! lol
6. My Soldier Son’s girlfriend sent my son a Christmas tree with some decorations so he has a tree for Christmas. I’m glad he will have a tree.
7. My Soldier Son emailed to tell me to expect packages he is sending. I told him NO ONE expects Christmas gifts from him this year. He said he wanted to get something for everyone. He’s apparently spent every minute he could on the internet making sure he ordered gifts for family and friends.
8. I got home and had a lovely Christmas card from an uncle I haven’t seen in years. It brought back a time and place that has been gone for a number of years as he’s the last one of that generation on that side of my family. It was simply wonderful to read what he wrote and realize he had taken the time and effort to send out cards.
9. I got on the internet when I got home and a lot of blogs are decorated for Christmas - including mine
10. At least 10 people I didn’t know wished me a Merry Christmas while I was out shopping today.
11. I stopped at Sams to pick up some odds & ends and the dishwashing little packets were all red and green. When I got to the check out counter the cashier remarked on the fact that we even have Christmasy dishwashing detergent. I had to laugh at how ridiculous that really is.
12. You simply can NOT stay in a bad mood listening to Christmas music. Period!
13. I got to read some notes a group of Tennessee school children wrote to our Soldiers.

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December 13th, 2006 at 9:41 pm
You are my first stop this week! Sounds like God is trying to tell you to enjoy these days and let all that irritating stuff go… of course, I should take my own advice:). But seriously, any time you get postal workers to smile, well that’s just a miracle now, isn’t it! Have a Happy Thursday!
DK
December 13th, 2006 at 10:18 pm
#6 brought tears…please tell your son we thank him each & every day for his service!! I’m glad you found some spirit today - HAPPY HAPPY CHRISTMAS!!
December 13th, 2006 at 10:19 pm
December 13th, 2006 at 10:19 pm
That’s a wonderful list and lifted my spirits just reading it. Your daughters interview made me laugh out loud. Thanks for sharing and I hope you have a wonderful day tomorrow.
December 13th, 2006 at 10:26 pm
This was definitely a spirit lifting post. And I needed one of those after the last 2 days.
Happy TT!
December 13th, 2006 at 10:34 pm
I absolutely LOVE your list. I’ve really noticed what a very merry Christmas it is for lots of people out there, and you’re right, it’s hard to stay grumpy when all the good moods are spreading around. I love it! I laughed out loud about the Post it’s and the button! (the button’s happened to me before). And my sister sent her soldier husband a tree too, and it completely lit up his holiday, isn’t that wonderful? Heartfelt thanks to your son for his service and a Merry Christmas. sorry about the long comment.
December 13th, 2006 at 10:43 pm
Your post just reminded me what Christmas is about. Thanks!
I’m up as well.
December 13th, 2006 at 11:11 pm
I’ll tell ya what - running any errand around Christmas time can turn anyone into a Grinch!
Great idea for a TT! I loved it.
December 13th, 2006 at 11:12 pm
What an awesome list! I know that it seems that people are in a pretty good mood lately ~ but I’ve been a bit of a grinch these days with all the coming and going that I’ve had to do…your post really helped to make me see I need to start looking around me and enjoying Christmas before it’s gone (goofy reindeer decorations and all!).
Thanks so much! Happy Thursday! Stop by my TT if you get a chance!
December 13th, 2006 at 11:18 pm
Your kids sounds great! And they love their momma! You can tell from the way you describe them. I think most adults experience those moments of bah-humbug… but when friends and family around, it tends to dissipate! I love the boxer in your header. Boxers are the very best breed!!!