
So far, this has really not been a good week. Lots of things have piled on that no one really wants to hear about and I don’t really want to write about - it’s just been stressful and not good. Today was particularly bad and my mood darkened as the day went by. I managed to get myself into a real snit.
I had to do some running around and it seemed every where I went someone, somewhere, somehow was spoiling my foul mood. So here are some of the things that happened today that intruded on my self-pity and seemed to be forcing the Christmas Spirit on me! They felt like little everyday miracles.
1. Standing in what seemed like an endless line at the post office I was surprised to hear cheerful talk and laugher among the other people in the line. Someone up ahead of me had on a ridiculous ornate Santa Claus hat that jingled whenever she moved her head. Just that one action created laugher, chatter and friendly smiles in spite of the long line. Even the postal workers were smiling and talking to the customers.
2. I went in to Subway to grab a sandwich for lunch and AGAIN everyone seemed in a good mood in the line (this good mood thing seemed to be spreading!). When I finally got to the cash register to pay for my sandwich, the cashier was unselfconsciously singing ‘The weather outside is frieghtful ….’ to herself. She didn’t even seem aware that she was singing the song.
3. I drove the back roads home because of the heavy traffic, only to get stopped on a 2-lane hardly ever used back road by road construction of all things. The workers were digging up part of the road - apparently laying pipe. I should say about 10 workers were lounging on the side of the road while one guy worked a backhoe kinda thing. I was the only car stopped and was irritated they wouldn’t let me pass when there was room. As I sat there and steamed to myself, I looked to my left and there was a small house with a fenced in yard FULL of the tackiest Christmas decorations I have ever seen (and that is saying something). There wasn’t an inch of yard without a plastic santa or reindeer. I laughed in spite of myself.

4. My precious daughter, who moved to California last month with nothing but a wing and a prayer, called me no less than a dozen times today to tell me funny things that were going on with her in job interviews.
‘I don’t think I did well in that job interview today’, she said. When I asked her why not she proceeded to explain to me that when she sat down her blouse opened a bit between buttons across her bust and no matter how she situated herself she couldn’t adjust it so it closed properly. I told her that might have helped her actually (just kidding - sorta). She was applying for a job in business, the interviewers asked her what organizational method she uses. ‘Post-It notes’, she answered. She said the female interviewer’s eyes went wide and the male interviewer chuckled. ‘I’m thinking that might not have been the answer they were looking for.’ she said. She had me laughing in spite of myself.
She said when she left the building one of the male interviewers was out there. He said hello and told her he hopes she gets the job. She replied that she didn’t think she did very well at all. He told her that she was ‘a breath of fresh air’. He said they talked about her a long time after she left and liked her honest, genuine answers. I told her I imagine they are STILL talking and laughing at her answers - the post-it notes wasn’t the only ‘honest’ answer she gave.
5. My precious daugher (see #4) has made some new friends and has been excitedly telling me about her plans to spend Christmas with some friends out in California who also don’t have family there. It makes me happy when my children are happy. She was making me read her recipes over the phone! lol
6. My Soldier Son’s girlfriend sent my son a Christmas tree with some decorations so he has a tree for Christmas. I’m glad he will have a tree.
7. My Soldier Son emailed to tell me to expect packages he is sending. I told him NO ONE expects Christmas gifts from him this year. He said he wanted to get something for everyone. He’s apparently spent every minute he could on the internet making sure he ordered gifts for family and friends.
8. I got home and had a lovely Christmas card from an uncle I haven’t seen in years. It brought back a time and place that has been gone for a number of years as he’s the last one of that generation on that side of my family. It was simply wonderful to read what he wrote and realize he had taken the time and effort to send out cards.
9. I got on the internet when I got home and a lot of blogs are decorated for Christmas - including mine
10. At least 10 people I didn’t know wished me a Merry Christmas while I was out shopping today.
11. I stopped at Sams to pick up some odds & ends and the dishwashing little packets were all red and green. When I got to the check out counter the cashier remarked on the fact that we even have Christmasy dishwashing detergent. I had to laugh at how ridiculous that really is.
12. You simply can NOT stay in a bad mood listening to Christmas music. Period!
13. I got to read some notes a group of Tennessee school children wrote to our Soldiers.

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December 13th, 2006 at 9:41 pm
You are my first stop this week! Sounds like God is trying to tell you to enjoy these days and let all that irritating stuff go… of course, I should take my own advice:). But seriously, any time you get postal workers to smile, well that’s just a miracle now, isn’t it! Have a Happy Thursday!
DK
December 13th, 2006 at 10:18 pm
#6 brought tears…please tell your son we thank him each & every day for his service!! I’m glad you found some spirit today - HAPPY HAPPY CHRISTMAS!!
December 13th, 2006 at 10:19 pm
December 13th, 2006 at 10:19 pm
That’s a wonderful list and lifted my spirits just reading it. Your daughters interview made me laugh out loud. Thanks for sharing and I hope you have a wonderful day tomorrow.
December 13th, 2006 at 10:26 pm
This was definitely a spirit lifting post. And I needed one of those after the last 2 days.
Happy TT!
December 13th, 2006 at 10:34 pm
I absolutely LOVE your list. I’ve really noticed what a very merry Christmas it is for lots of people out there, and you’re right, it’s hard to stay grumpy when all the good moods are spreading around. I love it! I laughed out loud about the Post it’s and the button! (the button’s happened to me before). And my sister sent her soldier husband a tree too, and it completely lit up his holiday, isn’t that wonderful? Heartfelt thanks to your son for his service and a Merry Christmas. sorry about the long comment.
December 13th, 2006 at 10:43 pm
Your post just reminded me what Christmas is about. Thanks!
I’m up as well.
December 13th, 2006 at 11:11 pm
I’ll tell ya what - running any errand around Christmas time can turn anyone into a Grinch!
Great idea for a TT! I loved it.
December 13th, 2006 at 11:12 pm
What an awesome list! I know that it seems that people are in a pretty good mood lately ~ but I’ve been a bit of a grinch these days with all the coming and going that I’ve had to do…your post really helped to make me see I need to start looking around me and enjoying Christmas before it’s gone (goofy reindeer decorations and all!).
Thanks so much! Happy Thursday! Stop by my TT if you get a chance!
December 13th, 2006 at 11:18 pm
Your kids sounds great! And they love their momma! You can tell from the way you describe them. I think most adults experience those moments of bah-humbug… but when friends and family around, it tends to dissipate! I love the boxer in your header. Boxers are the very best breed!!!
December 13th, 2006 at 11:27 pm
That’s an awesome list, and I tell ya, it made me smile
December 13th, 2006 at 11:48 pm
Good for you for finding something to be positive about during a bad week! I enjoyed reading all of those. : )
Happy TT! Mine is up, too.
December 14th, 2006 at 12:09 am
Some wonderfully uplifting moments!!!
December 14th, 2006 at 1:13 am
Great list! Makes me happy to know your son will have a tree too!
December 14th, 2006 at 1:56 am
Years ago I always got depressed in December it was awful and lasted until end February. Nothing could be done so Christmas was a horror trip for me for a few years. Fortunately that is the past and now I am enjoying it very much !
December 14th, 2006 at 2:51 am
I always wish everyone a Merry Christmas at this time of year.
I linked to you from my TT 13 Prescriptions and what Doctors really Mean
December 14th, 2006 at 2:52 am
TT 13 Prescriptions and what Doctors really Mean…
The ancient Greeks dreamed of medicines so powerful they could cure all diseases and prolong life indefinitely. From this desire came Panacea, the daughter of the Greek god of medicine. “Panacea” was sought after by the alchemists as the elixir of li…
December 14th, 2006 at 5:54 am
I love this post! I’m emailing it to some friends so they can share in the good cheer.
December 14th, 2006 at 6:01 am
That is a lovely list. I hope you have a great Christmas and that your children are safe. No matter how grown up they are
December 14th, 2006 at 7:20 am
What a great list! I especially enjoyed the interview details! Although everyone is under pressure and going full speed, there does seem to be an increase in friendly interaction between strangers this time of year. Thanks for a fun-to-read TT!
(BTW, How do you have the time to make your blog so attractive! ? All the clever animated pic, etc. add so much! )
December 14th, 2006 at 7:32 am
I had a lot of trouble getting blogger to accept my comment. I just switched to Beta - I guess that’s the problem. Anyway, here goes again: Thanks for recipes — sounds good, and I love the “easy” part. I also loved the St. Peter at the gate joke, but couldn’t get my comment to take.
December 14th, 2006 at 7:37 am
Sorry about that previous comment. It was supposed to be on another blog. I don’t know how I got back to yours unexpectedly.
December 14th, 2006 at 7:50 am
Your list is WONDERFUL! I got my Christmas card from that same uncle yesterday - and he wrote such a sweet note. Did I tell you that when I was at Mother’s this past weekend, he called to get addresses and so I got to talk with him? It just about made me cry because he reminded me so much of Daddy!
December 14th, 2006 at 10:55 am
I loved your list. I did not know your little girl was in California. Doesn’t she know she could get a job in Georgia????
I have posted 13 of my favorite angels!
December 14th, 2006 at 12:00 pm
This TT is great! I loved the one where you laughed about all the outlandish Christmas decorations. Seems, when we are having problems (you were stopped on the road), we can still find something to laugh about.
Check out my TT
December 14th, 2006 at 12:33 pm
Sorry you were in a bad mood Mom. I love you and I’m happy I could cheer you up a little bit. You forgot to mention in your blog that you advised me to wear a sexy bra at least if that is going to happen! You should be ashamed of yourself!
Don’t worry I will not ask you for the same recipe 10 more times. I love you!
December 14th, 2006 at 1:08 pm
Bush Ignores The Democrats Call To Retreat…
Since the release of the Iraq Study Groups report the Democrats have been jumping up and down and yelling that the Bush administration to cut and change course and “redeploy†from Iraq, but the President has ignored their calls and forged ahead….
December 14th, 2006 at 3:17 pm
I think you’d find my Th 13 an interesting connection with your own. Hope it continues to be a good week.
December 14th, 2006 at 4:08 pm
I went to the doctor’s office yesterday and I must say that the staff wearing silly christmas hats and/or christmas scrubs did cheer me up. It’s nice to see people in the spirit.
I also enjoying seeing blogs decorated for Christmas.
My 13 are up.
December 14th, 2006 at 4:28 pm
I must secretly admit that I love seeing everything and everyone in holiday decor. I won’t admit it in person because that would ruin my bah humbug reputation…
December 14th, 2006 at 5:40 pm
Loved your very Christmassy list.
Hope your son has a safe sound Holiday.
Take care,
Frances
December 14th, 2006 at 9:34 pm
I really liked your list. And along with others, please convey our thanks to your soldier son for his service and wish him a Merry Christmas from all of us.
Merry Christmas!
December 15th, 2006 at 12:49 am
This is what Christmas is all about! Thanks for ringing it home.
Happy TT