
- Every time I think I might know something I get a lesson in humility. (This is a lesson I have learned many times, but apparently need to re-learn on a regular basis).
- Whenever I think I’m a good judge of character, I get taken in and find I have to re-learn that lesson repeatedly as well.
- I’ve learned a little German - very little - but a little. That’s a language I never thought I would be able to speak considering I can hardly speak English - but with my son’s ‘home base’ in Germany, it has become simplier for me to learn snipets of the language and I’m working on more.
- I’ve learned that going an entire year without taking a real vacation is not at all a good idea and a person gets tired and burned-out.
- I’ve learned I can keep a blog up for an entire year. Most of my hobbies have not lasted that long. I think there are addictive qualities to blogging that keep me involved in it.
- I’ve been surprised to see that anyone actually reads my blog.
- I have gotten to know some wonderful people blogging and gotten to know some family members better than I had before.
- I twisted my ankle for the first time in my life in the past year and learned that hurts like the dickens and takes forever to heal. I had no idea it hurt that badly and will forever have more sympathy for people who have ankle/foot problems.
- I’ve begun to realize that I don’t have the career ambitions I once had. I’ve started realizing I would like to do other things.
- I’ve learned that I really don’t like having my children live so far away. I really miss having them live within at least driving distance and dropping in periodically for swimming or dinner or something.
- I’ve realized that even with the kids gone my house still gets messy and I still get behind in my laundry. I guess that means I can’t continue to blame them for the messes.
- I’ve realized I don’t like having my daughter living on the other side of the country - although that is her choice and I wouldn’t want her to make a decision about that based on what I want.
- I’ve learned that even though I thought I was prepared to be the parent of a son at war I really wasn’t. The reality of him being in Baghdad is much harder than I ever imagined it would be.
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December 28th, 2006 at 11:15 am
I love your list!
December 28th, 2006 at 11:46 am
This is a touching list….I hope that your son is safe and gets to come soon!
Happy New Year!!!!
December 28th, 2006 at 11:53 am
It’s almost as if you knew I’d read your blog today and try to make me feel guilty! I’ll move back to your side of the country sometime and I’ll see you in March!
December 28th, 2006 at 11:57 am
BTW - No matter what your ambitions are professionally, you are great at what you do. I’ve always looked up to you. (Even though at times I tell you how to do your job
) Don’t let recent events worry you too much, you can never predict people’s actions, and they always full of surprises. That is totally out of your control, just teaches you to not be so trusting. Now it is time to crack down and set some examples!
December 28th, 2006 at 12:53 pm
RE: I’ve started realizing I would like to do other things.
I am so with you on this.
And I too find that even though my daughter married and moved away there’s still tons of laundry around!
Sending blessing your son’s way.
Have a safe and happy New Year,
Frances
December 28th, 2006 at 1:23 pm
i enjoyed this list a lot. we are always learning.
my tt is up.
December 28th, 2006 at 2:59 pm
Great list. I worry about your son too….I guess when you actually know someone over there it makes a difference. Good luck on learning German, I need to be working on Spanish and just keep procrastinating!
December 28th, 2006 at 3:49 pm
When you realize that you’re never, ever done learning…you’ve already taken a huge step forward. (Then again, if we didn’t constantly learn, we’d start stagnating fairly quickly, and we’d get bored with ourselves and with those around us.)
Happy new year!
December 28th, 2006 at 3:49 pm
Great list! I’m with you on the humility thing. Everytime I think I have it, something else happens.
My husband is in Ramadi. We’re halfway through our deployment. You and your son and the rest of your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. THANK YOU ALL for your sacrifices. Stop by my blog every now and then. I post as many positive things I can about this deployment. God is with you on this…
When is your son due home?
December 28th, 2006 at 6:27 pm
Hope your son comes home safe and sound to you soon.